Ruth has been a wonderful support to me through my daughter’s illness and my subsequent bereavement. Her warmth, calmness and care have enabled me to share my deepest feelings in the ‘safe place’ that her empathy creates.

She is a wonderful listener with the ability to comealongside another person - sharing their journey and experiences – gently challenging where appropriate and – in the safe, calm environment she creates – giving confidence and enabling small steps to decision making and to the possibility of new doors opening.

Ruth is very generous in her sense of commitment – she has been there for me in the darkest times with an awareness and concern for the depth of the pain that is being expressed and also happy to acknowledge and celebrate the hint of a silver lining.

She is balanced in her assessments and so very sensitive to the emotions and thoughts being shared. In her caring concern, and willingness to come alongside me, Ruth shows a respect, and appreciation of what I have been facing which has enhanced my self esteem at low times. The loving care she projects has given me a feeling of being uplifted and standing taller and more able to assess my situation and understand my emotions.

I can honestly say that I do not know how I would have got through these last months without her being there – and somehow honouring my pain and loss by her presence with me. I can’t thank her enough for all I have gained and I will never ever forget the help she has given to me.

A while ago a problem arose I didn’t know which way to go. Ruth listened.

No interruption. No judgement.

Gently led me (unknowingly at the time!) to my own decision about the way forward.

I cannot thank her enough for her kindness and understanding.